Oh, thats right youre in VA beach! If youre up for a car trip, you can attend NARBC in Chantilly, Richmond Reptile show, or maybe MARS in Baltimore (you just missed it!). A good expo can't be beat in terms of sheer selection.
Faunaclassifiedss................ ehhhhhh. I don't disagree with you, but after checking out repticzone, fauana is at least better than that. Let me warn you here and now, repticzone.com is a rathole. Just don't even start. I would check fauana if there was something I aabsolutely had to have that wasnt offered at KS. But KS if better moderated IMO, and certainly better in terms of things to do. They have the classifieds of course, hundreds of forums, a chatroom, videos, photo gallery, business links, book and supplies reviews, and who knows what else. But ANYWHERE you go, unless you really know the person, check with someone knowledgeable for 'approval'. But a scam is unlikely if you know who to buy from and what to look out for. I'll get that word doc now and paste it in.
And softshells or ANY reptile will of course be nervous. They think youre a giant monster going to eat them. Give all reptiles some time to get used to your presence before you even think about touching them. But I agree, probably not the best for a first time turtle owner, but still not a bad choice. I say albino red ears simply because they are STUNNING and almost never seen neglected in the conditions you would see normals. But they run about 150-300 depending on age, color, and size. You know females get bigger than males for the ones I listed right? Just letting you know.
My list has just about EVERY breeder I 'approved of' for all my favorite herps. It's got turtle stuff and supplies stuff you could use, and feel free browsing the others in case you don't decide on a turtle (which I still strongly suggest you do).
So give me a few minutes before you start firing off!