just re-did my black throats enclosure, and watered down the soil for the worms and what not, and after I put him in I noticed he was rubbing he back in through the soil as he was walking and I noticed he was showing his hemipenis, so i am 100% sure he is a male now 
just though I would share the good news
pictures of HIM when I get a camera and of his enclosure
just though I would share the good news
pictures of HIM when I get a camera and of his enclosure