Ok so I got married April 1. We went to the court house no one was invited. This would be our second marriage. So we figured very simple just us. Well his parents live in another state. My mother and sister live here.
Problem is my sister is now not talking to me. She is younger and still lives with my mom. So my mom was a bit upset. They were there when I got married the first time. Which didn't worked.
My sisters birthday is this Friday. An in speaking to my mom we got into a fight yesterday. She was actually defending my sister. How my sister just wants to spend time with me blah blah blah.
We have nothing in common. We don't get along. We don't call each other. How do I spend time with someone who I don't get along with? My sister is still mad we didn't go see tangled in the movies together. That was like what a year ago?
As for the phone call with my mom... I was like so you mean if I went to Vegas it would have been ok.... She was like yeah. I'm like are you for real?! I'm thinking but we didn't want to spend money. She said my sister had asked her if she was mad. My mom said she was like I'm just her mother it doesn't matter.
I'm like tha'ts how you feel? That's what you think? I'm thinking I'm the one who goes over and cuts the grass.... Buries the dead animals. Or takes the animals to the vet to be put to sleep. My sister does NOTHING!
I was like mom she didn't even say congrats. My mom was like you know what I didn't say it either. I was like but your still talking to me. Then it hit me. She really didn't. The only person close to me was my best friend.
So I hung up on her. Childish I know but why am I not allowed to be mad?
I'm very happy with my husband. My son is happy. I just can't get over this whole thing. I want to call my mom we have always been close. Its just her voice mail kinda pushed me a little mover over the edge. Plus my husband leaves next month for a year to Kuwait. Then he comes back and we move. I'm just venting but lost at what to do. None of us speak with my father. *shrug*
Problem is my sister is now not talking to me. She is younger and still lives with my mom. So my mom was a bit upset. They were there when I got married the first time. Which didn't worked.
My sisters birthday is this Friday. An in speaking to my mom we got into a fight yesterday. She was actually defending my sister. How my sister just wants to spend time with me blah blah blah.
We have nothing in common. We don't get along. We don't call each other. How do I spend time with someone who I don't get along with? My sister is still mad we didn't go see tangled in the movies together. That was like what a year ago?
As for the phone call with my mom... I was like so you mean if I went to Vegas it would have been ok.... She was like yeah. I'm like are you for real?! I'm thinking but we didn't want to spend money. She said my sister had asked her if she was mad. My mom said she was like I'm just her mother it doesn't matter.
I'm like tha'ts how you feel? That's what you think? I'm thinking I'm the one who goes over and cuts the grass.... Buries the dead animals. Or takes the animals to the vet to be put to sleep. My sister does NOTHING!
I was like mom she didn't even say congrats. My mom was like you know what I didn't say it either. I was like but your still talking to me. Then it hit me. She really didn't. The only person close to me was my best friend.
So I hung up on her. Childish I know but why am I not allowed to be mad?
I'm very happy with my husband. My son is happy. I just can't get over this whole thing. I want to call my mom we have always been close. Its just her voice mail kinda pushed me a little mover over the edge. Plus my husband leaves next month for a year to Kuwait. Then he comes back and we move. I'm just venting but lost at what to do. None of us speak with my father. *shrug*
send her my number, lol.
