ok i have 2 sevs, a 4" male and a 3" female in seperate tanks.(you can tell sexs by the markings between the eyes rite?) i like 2 put them together but the male grew up in a community tank and is kind of a scaredy cat. the female bosses around everyone in my cichlid tank. would i be setting him up for death? they would b joinin a dempsey salvini and convict (all females) in a 4ft 80 gal tank