Yes, it is a female Jack Dempsey, you can tell this from the blue splotch thing under her eyes, If it was a male it would not have as much blue under there and it would be dots and not splotches.
The one in the back is a female, the one in front is a male, can you see what i mean about splotches and dots now? By the way it's no my picture, it's from google...
Thanks, he has really colored up since I brought him home(I'm pretty sure it's a he anyway) Also has grown some, the JD is smaller and currently getting bullied. I may take her back and try to spot a female FM to bring home and try to pair up.