Plz dont laught!

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d20monsteroscar20

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Ok here is the whole deal.. plz dont laught!.
wen i met her i tought she was the one, beautifull and everything a guy can ever want. so we hang out and had good times. after the 6th month I finally told her how i felt about her. she never saied nothing on the spot, but after that same week she told me that she wasnt ready. so we continued as friends. the problem now is that our friendship wen from being perfect to not so good. She told me today that sometimes she just dont want to be my friend cause she dont want to be friends/to deal with someone that likes her. so I dont know what to do I mean i dont like her like that anymore but she still thinks i like her. should i just not hangout with her as often as i do or what? I really want to save this friendship and thats y i decided to ask you guys and girls out there to help me.
I tried giving her one of my tanks but she is not into fishes. so i just feel like giving up but i dont know if thats right. what should i do?
 
ok she thinks she still likes you right? well tell her that you dont like-like her and that you just want to be her friend, i guess you could mesion that you use to like-like her and that you decided that its better that you just be friends.
 
How about moving this to the appropriate forum. :) Don't mean to be rude or anything but this has nothing to do with fish. :)
 
d20monsteroscar20 said:
Ok here is the whole deal.. plz dont laught!.
wen i met her i tought she was the one, beautifull and everything a guy can ever want. so we hang out and had good times. after the 6th month I finally told her how i felt about her. she never saied nothing on the spot, but after that same week she told me that she wasnt ready. so we continued as friends. the problem now is that our friendship wen from being perfect to not so good. She told me today that sometimes she just dont want to be my friend cause she dont want to be friends/to deal with someone that likes her. so I dont know what to do I mean i dont like her like that anymore but she still thinks i like her. should i just not hangout with her as often as i do or what? I really want to save this friendship and thats y i decided to ask you guys and girls out there to help me.
I tried giving her one of my tanks but she is not into fishes. so i just feel like giving up but i dont know if thats right. what should i do?
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just once you cross that line it wont be the same....
 
David said it.

Dont give her ANY attention, the more you try and bring things back to the way it was the more you are pushing her away. She cant see that you are trying to save the friendship, all she is thinking is how to get out of this situation and the only thing she will do is ignore you till you go away - as bad as that sounds.

If it were me i would be an ******* and just pretend she didn't exist - its funny how minds work, when we know we can have something we dont want it but for some reason when we know we cant have something we want it.

Try it - you will be surprised
 
rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! your all wrong, shes trying to lose you because all she wanted was a friend not a penis call..... sorry bro
 
Phatboy said:
Well, lesson learned -- never tell your friend that you have "feelings for her".
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bingo
 
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