http://www.fishbase.org/summary/Phractocephalus-hemioliopterus.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Redtail_catfish (check out the references and links too)
http://www.planetcatfish.com/cotm/cotm.php?article_id=77
http://nas.er.usgs.gov/queries/FactSheet.aspx?SpeciesID=838
http://www.seriouslyfish.com/species/phractocephalus-hemioliopterus/
http://www.aquaticcommunity.com/fish/redtailedcatfish.php
http://www.fishing-worldrecords.com/scientificname/Phractocephalus hemioliopterus/show
http://www.fishing-worldrecords.com/record/2925/show
How many baby catfish can 1 single female have?
***Great many. The larger the fish, the more eggs it has. IDK exactly but presume thousands to tens of thousands, maybe even hundreds.
Do they lay eggs or are they live bearers?
***Like a vast majority of fish, they are oviparous.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oviparity
Is it hard to breed them in captivity?
***I am under the impression that no natural spawn has ever been reported. The farmers use artificial means.
And how do the young survive being so small in a rapid amazon river
***Just like a baby antelope, who can run in a couple hours after birth, this and other fish are born all equipped to survive. The young live in shallows near the shoreline with little to no current.
full of predators how do the little 1 inchers survive the current the predators
***As usual, perhaps 1 in 10,000 -100,000 survives to maturity.
and how in the world can they eat with the water moving so fast?
***The same way you eat riding on a highway

They are fish, they are built to hunt or scavenge a meal and swallow it whole. The only obstacle is that the meal be swallow-able. Again, they are born and grow up first in the flooded forests, creeks, in shoreline habitats, feeding on anything edible.
And also are the adults solitary or do they reside in schools or packs?
***They never school at any age.
And finally do the parents form a lifelong bond or do they find different mates each year?
***IDK of any fish that does that. They may come together for the spawning, many fish of each sex at a time or one female and many males, etc.