- As some of you know,my girl and I have been struggling for some time now.We are both somewhat complicated ppl,not drama,just odd as far as being compared to other ppl in my town.I have a million hobbies from road bike riding,surfing,herps,fish,books,fitness and musical instruments.I pay attention to politics but not obsessed.I believe in God but am not a saint.Im a strong built 6 foot 2 guy that can be tough as hell and on the other hand I can show a very humble and I guess womanly side,no not ***,just I like passion,romance,you know.I listen to anything from Sade to punk rock.I dont do drugs,I enjoy a night of drinks and party still now and then.I just dont take anything to the extreme.I love family,I can be more of a loaner as far as hanging with the friends because most of mine if not moved or married then they just like to go party all the time.
- I grew up being the kind of family that calls each other to let you know you made it safe while traveling and silly stuff like that.If you fight,you try to make up soon.Just good family values to make it short.
- I would rather go to the gym than watch a football game on tv,but would love going to the games,especialy in the winter when you can snuggle up to your hunny,lol.I am very sexual but am not a 5 times a week must type guy.I love moving the coffee table and throwing down a blanket and watchin a good movie,maybe after making a good dinner,or just oven bake pizzas.I cook all the time and bbq often.Love to have a girl kick it with a carona with me while bbq is going and maybe some zeplin in the juke box you know.
- Love sharing the chores.IDK,just given some basics here.Anyways,Im 33 now,make only around 35 a year.Dont laugh but I bought a very nice mobil home and the lot,its realy like a nice little house in a very good area.Much better than an apartment or condo,nice and modern or at least clean inside.
- Im just sick that me and my girl didnt work out and so is she but weve been fighting it for a long time now.We love eachother as friends still,and thats just how it hase to be.Yes Im getting over that stuff right now so Im very depressed.Moving on.
- All the girls in my town seem to like the wanna be rock stars that are bustin their asses every day in construction then come home and drink beer all night or hang with their buds.Fine,just not my cup of tea,at least not always because Ive been their too.Please tell me you girls are not all gold diggers and materialistic.I mean I know not all of you are but you know what I mean.I feel it was so rare to have had the last 2 girls I did because they were so real,especialy this one.I want someone Im atracted to yes,but I want loyalty,honesty,not some extremest in any way.Someone who will like a kid some day but dosnt already have any,not that I hate that,its just my preference.I want beach trips,disneyland,camping and also romantic nights in a classy joint you know.Wake up and make breakfast together.A true best friend,Im 33 and have never cheated on a girl before,my other ex was living with me for 6 years and I had tons of chances but Im very against cheating.
- So gals,am I over thinking this all,Im just afraid the girls between 26 and 35 just want a rich guy,yet I offer so much more,I got some flaws to dont get me wrong,lol,but you get the pic.Please just post if your into this,Im depressed enough,dont want to see negetive hate love coments,heard it all before,lol.Thanks to any kind words or advice.
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dude same here but you need to man up and go find that girl that will except you or from what can see there is no other girl just your ex!
Yeah I cowboy up pretty good,its just real fresh and I cant help to think that all the girls Ive met in the last 3 years of being with this one were either nuts or married already,lol.The last part of your post I didnt get,my bad,I may be reading it wrong.RedTailKinG;2200632; said:
Have you ever watched "The Mexican" ?
I have a simple book if you would like I could email it to you.. Takes between 15-45 minutes to read.. May help in the future relationship
If my wife were a digger.. She'd be gone
I am not rich we are happy. 
So far.... 
I believe that when she comes.. You'll Know.
But Mainly had to talk alittle bout my wife as if she wanted... She could have most any rich man she wanted...
I have a simple book if you would like I could email it to you.. Takes between 15-45 minutes to read.. May help in the future relationship
If my wife were a digger.. She'd be gone
I am not rich we are happy. So far.... I believe that when she comes.. You'll Know.
But Mainly had to talk alittle bout my wife as if she wanted... She could have most any rich man she wanted...
Yeah all my girls were out of site lookers.Thats not all I care about though,I dont want them more worried about their hair than the car that pulled out in front of us,lol.I saw the mexican,always loved the part your talking about.My ex and I talked about that.Thier is a very fine line in that quote,we just got exhausted though.Our problem is that we let it go on too long.WHo knows what the futer brings,could be her again,but right now Im afraid we are moving on as freinds and Im ok with that.Whats the book you speak of?,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,And come on gals,I need some ladies views too.Tongue33;2200947; said:Have you ever watched "The Mexican" ?
I have a simple book if you would like I could email it to you.. Takes between 15-45 minutes to read.. May help in the future relationship
If my wife were a digger.. She'd be gone
I believe that when she comes.. You'll Know.
But Mainly had to talk alittle bout my wife as if she wanted... She could have most any rich man she wanted...
in the last part what I meant was seems to me you wont find any other but her she is the one I would try to work it out cause when two people find each other and then part and cant find the right one after usually means they were the one
well its only been a few days,lol.Havent really started looking yet,just observing.RedTailKinG;2200997; said:
jason longboard;2200984; said:
The thin line in the quote is a lesson in itself.. Really A double edged sword
Either fit or don't fit..The Book is called relationship Saver.. It's pretty straight forward. I suggest it to all those that come over looking for advice..
Most of them turned their relationships into jobs though...Always trying to work on it and what have you.. well Most know that if you have to WORK on your relationship.. It is no longer the type of relationship you are likely looking for.. It is now a job.. And When your relationship becomes work... Well Someon usually gets fired or quits..
Now working on yourself during a relationship is different..
Another thing.. is we tend to end up with similar mates after letting loose the last one.. Mainly our picker is still attracted to and attracting the same things.. Usually what we want and what we pick are two different things... Try something different. Looks and actions can be decieving
My Wife was way not my type... It wasn't until I stumbled onto not my type that I found... Doing something different got me different results....