Bummer deal...that really sucks. it really isn't very much fun when yaz loose a fish.......I guess on the upside you could think of it as you now have more room for more fish! I'm sure shelly would want you to move on.....
That sucks...I am pretty de-senseatized (sp.?) to having fish die but if I ever lost my oscars I would be heart broken, they qualify as pets unlike most of my fish...my mind would certainly be raceing with new tank ideas. How old was your oscar?