i poor it in a bucket and toss the hose it there.
ive even just thrown it in with out rinsing it for my girlfriends tank and it didnt cloud up and the water tested fine lol i use HTH pool filter sand. its like 10 bucks a bag i think.
I dont find that playsand gets disturbed easily. Iv got some big fish, and others like to sif through the sand for food and it drops back down in a second. Only time the sand flies around is when I knock over my 1500gph pump.
varies on location, my hd doesnt even carry pool filter sand. most places wont carry pool filter sand in the off season. Just gotta find the places that do. Maybe ace?