Honestly you will have to wait and see what they will look like. Give them some time and TLC. They are much easier to sex once they get to about 4" or so. Do not give up until you know for sure what you have. Besides who cares what everyone else has to say about them as long as you like them.
Wow! I really wouldn't think you would see such nastiness on a forum such as this. I guess there's on in every 'crowd'.
You can't judge a FH well when they're juvenile and especially when they're stressed and not showing their colors. Give them a little time to grow and show more pics.