pretty sure you will have to grow them out a bit and see, one male should be the easiest since he will most likely show himself as the most dominant/aggressive and grow the fastest but sometimes you cant really tell for sure without venting or until they are several inches long, however at the size they are right now they are still too small for venting but they wont stay that way for long. i have to jag babies i got at an 1in about a month ago and they are already 2in or a bit longer now, and the main one im pretty sure is male because he is definitely the boss of the other one and is already showing spotting on both sides of his belly, but ive never seen this spotting on any other jags this small (in pictures, ive never kept other jags before)