I have one Jack Dempsey in a 35 gallon tank, all alone, he's about 7-8 inches long and was happy as a clam until a few weeks ago. He started flipping out and running into the glass, darting across the tank and knocking over decorations, totally flipping out, then burying into the gravel and just sitting with his head down the fins straight up, totally vertical. Next he stopped eating, not even bloodworms which are his favorite, and a small white cotton looking-patch started to appear under his bottom lip. I changed the filter, changed 15-20% of the water, tested and corrected the ph, (it was way to low) and added tank conditioner. The water is still really cloudy despite adding stuff that's supposed to fix that, (twice in 1 week). The Jack looks much better, (active/swimming around-wise) but still flips out at least 3 times a week and destroys his tank/runs into the glass/hurts himself. The cotton patch seems to have gone, but now the fish has a hole under his lower lip that doesn't appear to be healing too well, and he still won't eat. I have no idea what's going on...