A co-worker is giving me a 75g tank and stand. I'm tempted on making it a planted small fish community or a couple of Breeding Convicts to pump out some feeders. I've had problems with the male killing the female before. It was in a smaller tank (20g), but now that I'm getting this...should I get some dither fish to spread the aggression to other fish or will the tank be good enough for the female to get away?