Have you vented the fish at all? Looks can be very deceiving when it comes to gender. Also if you plan on breeding I recommend using a female that is smaller then the male is so the female has a place to run to and hide from the male where the male can't fit into. Lastly usually it's not a very good idea to mix African cichlids with other cichlids not from Africa.That's the little one, I think it's a short body . an I'm hoping the bigger one is a female I've had it almost 2 years vs the one with the bigger hump I've had for like 4-5 months

Yeah she definitely threw me thru a loop when I vented her lol. Yeah never had any luck with major crossbreeding. I currently have my male convict in with my big female FH but he hides from her 24/7 unless there is food involved. She would love to tare him apart if she could be she can't fit into his vase in the tank. Only reason I got him with her is because she's bigger and aggressive towards him otherwise if he's in with something smaller he is the aggressive one.Oh dang yea I'm heading to montana in about 20 min for work so I'll have to actually vent them when I get home. Yours definitely looks like a male with the big hump. An I figured I'd just leave the con in with him until he starts acting aggressive towards her. For now they act like little lovebirds just dont want no wierd crossbreed