What should I do?

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Jack Dempsey
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Dec 15, 2007
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HELP ME :cry: got into a fight with my whole family and they all swore to destroy my tanks and break each piece of equipment and kill all my fishes if i ever start a fight again with them...:cry: I am pissed right now im beginning to be aggressive with everyone im with :cry: Im not gunna be on for a few days so cya all later on when I get back online after I come home from hiding out at my friends house.
 
Go chill out at your friends, cool off, go home, and fix it.....You need to chill out until you pay your own bills. Ask them if they want you to get help, and if they do, go get it...I think you can do it alone, but there are many drugs to help you be more placid (calm)....Good luck buddy....
 
Ive been going through some depression with relationship and how ppl are becoming so only into themselves.The entire way ppl are becoming in my town and elsewhere.I tend to lash out at my family the most and coworkers,always going back to say sorry but I can get angry like DR house or a bit funnier like DR cox.I bring this up because underneath,the anger shown is never about them,its the other stuff I mentioned.Money issues,job,the all about me attitude of the world now,everyones a wannabe movie star,but mostly stuff like my relationship and how a good one and a family mean so much to me but Im still not their yet.Lots of harsh things happend to my family after many years of heaven.Its not been easy but its those things you hold in that make you lash out at others and you need to talk to ppl about it.Drinking,smoking and wasting time will make it worse.Make small goals and stick to them,any accomplishments will make you feel better.Make a plan dude.It will be yours,get in shape with your mind and body,nobody can take that from you.Start thinning out your crap from their house so when the time comes you can easily split and start your life.Make a plan,for reals.
 
Go home when you think things will be calm. Having been in similar situations throughout my life talking things out sometimes helps. But you basically have to suck up whatever rules they lay down til you're old enough to graduate/move.
 
dude.. i had the same problem.

always frustrated, overbuild of testosterone (sp?. lol), feel like i wanna rip someones head off if they look at me wrong.

then i found an escape. The Gym. i was already doing weights and stuff, but minimal and doing alot of body weight. hit the gym and take out all your anger and frustration on a barbell. Powerclean and Bench are great stress relievers! hit it as hard as you want, you wont break it.

seriously. it works. only problem is. if you take a week off and you get that rage back (like i did this week) it can get ugly.

but first. talk to your family and find out what everyones problem is (might not be the same for everyone). come to terms and then find something you can destroy when you get heated (like some wieghts)
 
hey went back today just to check up on my fishes until i head back out for a few days just to cool off and the umbee i got back has attacked my Stingray and is looking in really bad shape =,( its very dark than very light brown and is swimming around crazy like in shock and won't eat
 
Putting an umbee with a ray is not smart at ALL.....:(
 
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