Even though i've only been here for a short while I really like you fellow MFKers, so I trust you guys for brutal honesty more then my friends.
So here is my conundrum. I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months and I was really happy with her. Now shes not sure about anything, told me she likes my friend, and is always texting her other guy friend. Like its hard to even get her attention sometimes because of her guy friend shes been texting.
She hates the time I put into maintaining my fish (which is only like an hour a day) and her telling me her opinion is saying "well that's just stupid."
I did something I would never normally do and went through her text messages to her guy friend and found out he calls her "babe" and they have been having midnight phone conversations after I leave her house.
I always give her the benefit of the doubt and try to accommodate her because I know her last relationship was a really bad experience for her.
Right now we are technically taking a break and I told her how I felt about her and where I stood, that I was willing to work things out if she was. She is still undecided.
So my question to anyone who wants to throw in their two cents is what would you do in my situation? Break it off permanently? Tell her im done with her until she makes a choice and stop talking to her till she does? Wait for her to make up her mind? Or something else?
This was my first relationship in a while and i've never been on the end that was considering ending it.
So here is my conundrum. I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months and I was really happy with her. Now shes not sure about anything, told me she likes my friend, and is always texting her other guy friend. Like its hard to even get her attention sometimes because of her guy friend shes been texting.
She hates the time I put into maintaining my fish (which is only like an hour a day) and her telling me her opinion is saying "well that's just stupid."
I did something I would never normally do and went through her text messages to her guy friend and found out he calls her "babe" and they have been having midnight phone conversations after I leave her house.
I always give her the benefit of the doubt and try to accommodate her because I know her last relationship was a really bad experience for her.
Right now we are technically taking a break and I told her how I felt about her and where I stood, that I was willing to work things out if she was. She is still undecided.
So my question to anyone who wants to throw in their two cents is what would you do in my situation? Break it off permanently? Tell her im done with her until she makes a choice and stop talking to her till she does? Wait for her to make up her mind? Or something else?
This was my first relationship in a while and i've never been on the end that was considering ending it.
