Love my LPS but both seem like they have a hard time getting female version of the Three spot gouramis...and i know how to tell..but im sorry..i don't blame them...it is not easy to tell...and harded to catch one..so i try not to bother them about that. but i have a 55 gallon with one blue marble and gold gourami and im sure both are male...not alot of fighting ....they all stand their ground and arent that aggressive...i have a gold, blue marble, a pink kisser and a thicklip ...all do well..no one gets bullied..but i want some females to help break any potential tension..i also have tiger barbs and they help break tension too...any one know of a good site that sells the female three spot..i find the female dwarf everywhere also..would female dwarfs actually work ? would three spot gouramis view them as potential mates? there by easing the tension
