in most cichlids males are much more aggro than the females! and they usually get larger too! in most species males look nicer too! but not in all for example festae females look a lot better than their male counterparts!
really oh i was hoping you would't say that dang i like red terrors but i can't keep a male as thay get like 18'' right and if thay are really aggressive then i can't get them to
i just relized that mayan cichlids are sold as red terrors are thay differnt than true red terrors if so i think that the pet store with a tank full of (true red terrors) my have one or two in there anybody got one?