One of my friends who has never kept fish previously, has recently developed an interest in cichlids and now wants to keep one. He is considering getting either a Bolivian Ram or a Rainbow cichlid. Of these two species, which one would seasoned cichlid keepers here recommend to an absolute novice? Additionally, would either species be able to co-exist peacefully with smaller anabatids such as bettas and honey gouramis? Thanks in advance.