Who knows you?

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Natural_Born_Killer

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A thought crossed my mind...

Who do you think really knows you best... your partner or your best friend?

Which leads me to the next thought that crossed my mind, does anyone really know who you are, even yourself? Are you just a number of different people, someone that changes every time that you are with different company?
 
it depends, say you have known your friend for ten+ years, but you have only known your partner for a few months, in that case your friend may very well know you better
 
one thing i can say since i am older then most of you... is that you never stop learning about yourself... the reason i quess is with each new learning experience you mature and change your thinking... so knowing yourself is always somewhat of a mystery.. you won't really know until you get there... what you will think.. or what you want to be...or what you will do... is constantly changing to some degree along lifes path...
 
Only two people really know me.

My best friend and my ex.
 
In the case that an older friend knows you better, but your partner lives with you. So they see your little details, things that friends don't see.
 
The one that knows you the best is the one your most yourself with... good, bad and indifferent...........
 
the wife. she reads me like a book, she says im so predictable too. especially when im building furniture. she says "it will go like this,.........." before I even start and after 5 minutes of me shouting and throwing a tantrum because holes arent drilled right by the horrible factory she calmly says "see, I told you". she knows to take over building as I have a repeating pattern of rage, after 5 minutes the hammer comes in and the whole thing goes in the bin in splinters.
 
I don't think anyone really knows me. People know different facets of me. My best friend knows all the **** I've done. My wife knows more intimate details/ habits. But if you are honest with yourself, you'll realize some of your deepest thoughts aren't shared with either.... I hardly know myself anymore.
 
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