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Relationship. Does it count?

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Mudslinger14

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Someone living 6000 miles away can count as a "boyfriend"?
Talking maybe once a day, seen each other only on TWO separate occasions...

How many think this counts as a relationship? :grinno:
 
Not even close to a relationship.
 
Thank you :D
After tomorrow I'll show this to the person who is in this "relationship" and watch her give me the evil stare. :ROFL:
 
i say yes, it can be a relationship. all that really matters is the boundaries you 2 set

i've known people to have commited relationships talking once a day living in completely different cities and have eventually moved in together after only meeting once or twice a year during the long distant text/internet/webcam relationship
 
Exchanging "I LOVE YOU SO MUCH <3<3<3" on facebook back and forth to each other clogging up my wall right now.

To be clear, this is my sister I'm talking about :P
Not me. :ROFL:
 
depends how old your sister is

generally, young people shouldn't be getting into long distance relationships

i live in california and met my wife in minnesota so that was a long distance relationship. but we were at a point where we were looking to get married so that was different. i had my bachelor's already and she was getting hers. once she got hers we took the plunge

but then again, as a dad, long distance may not be so bad for my daughters. never seeing their bf may be better than seeing a local bf every week or every day at school, lol
 
44 to 55 percent split....sounds like your sister is pretty sane to me as that's darn near an even split
 
My sister is 16 hah

Alright well fine. I wanted the results to be unanimous so she would get all mad at me.

Damn.
 
AS mentioned... for a 16 year old, no. My and my wife started with a long distance relationship and we have been married for 5.5 years. To me in one way it was better because we by-passed all the BS that happens in a normal meet and date relationship where you ask someone out on a date on Monday for Friday then only see them for 1 to 2 hours that week and don't talk much due to eating and watching a movie .

We would talk for about 2 hours every day via webcam. We were also in our 30's at the time.
 
Just a FYI, my sister met a person on the internet.

At the time she lived here in Regina and he lived in Oregon. After a period of about 2-3 years of never having really met in person and only speaking with each other via net ways a very interesting thing happened.

SHE MARRIED THE PERSON. (edit :that was over 8 years ago :0) )

I would have to say in regards to you trying to control whom your sister is interested in, that is a very bad idea (unless there is direct abuse going on). Let me tell you why based on personal experience.

Let's take my wife for example. We have been married since April 6, 1996. From the moment we got betrothed to each other, her mom and dad have done their best to try to paint a picture of me based on what they think from their worries and fears. Yet time has a very funny way of showing truth over error.

After 15 years of it her parents are looking truly truly foolish as their prognostications of the certain failure of our marriage have not only failed to materialized but have been proven so very wrong.

I would think you would not want to stick your feet into your mouth with some of the stuff you might say to your sister in your efforts to prove her 16 year old heart wrong.

Love if it is indeed love has a power that is far greater than you or anyone else possesses.

It is one thing for you to offer her advice, it is quite another for you to think it your mission to show her the foolishness of her ways. There is a sad thing about people having and ulterior motive trying to prove the validity of their point of view and forcing it on another.

I wonder will you show her this post as well?

Chef
 
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