Why I keep single specimen, or "pet fish" tanks - a deep dive of my broken psyche!

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I keep at the most two fish per tank. That may seem strange to some, and perhaps at the end of the day, it is. Well, I thought about this for a while today, and after some soul searching, i've come to realize the a few answers as to why I do this...

1. When I see a large aquarium with a lot of fish, my eyes, after drinking in the beauty, instantly look for signs of illness or non-robustness in a grouping of fish. I do this a lot at restaurants with tanks or hotel lobbies or whatever. And typically, if there are a lot of fish, I will find that one or two sickly looking specimens. Fish that don't eat, are sick or injured - Hole in the head, whatever. Let me tell you this drives me crazy. For some reason this totally ruins the experience. Why does this matter? Well, if the tank is a monster tank, how the heck do you net out such an ill fish? Or medicate it for that matter - if it is healthy enough to avoid the net? Therefore in my personal collection, I demand perfection so to speak with my charges, and or the easy ability to get them back to tip top shape, thereby eliminating the option of having large numbers of fish in a large tank. How the heck can I manage to see if everyone is getting enough to eat if I had large numbers of fish? Though I would INCREDIBLY enjoy a giant planted tetra tank, mixed with sparkling jewels from the amazon, I think the stress of ensuring everyone was health and eating would drive me batty.

2. I really like to fall in love so to speak with my fish. Take for example my fat fancy goldfish. I name them, and they become like puppies to me. This action becomes next to impossible with large numbers of fish in a large tank. I build an emotional bond with them, or at least as much as an emotional bond with a fish a human can possibly have (without the neighbors talking).

In the end, I think this speaks to my need for a certain kind of perfection, at least the kind of perfection my limited budget and abilities will allow me to have.

Again, at the end of the day, when I see a monster tank with, let's say for poops and giggles, a giant school of African cichlids moving in and out of a giant wall of rock, my eyes drink it in, but they also scan for imperfection in terms of health. And if I find that one sick fish, the whole thing is ruined for me in a way, because I know that in such a large tank, there really is no way to address that particular fishes situation.

You dig? Or am I alone in my, let's call it quirkiness - yes quirkiness, that word doesn't make me seem all that abnormal.

thoughts?
 
Completely, 110% Agree!!! When i have more than one fish in a tank i worry about if they're fighting or if they're getting injured or sick. I can see where you're coming from and it actually doesn't make me seem so much like an idiot. :D
 
i do it especially at large pet stores, not so much restaurants or hotels...but at petco/petsmart whatever you may have, i go in and look just to see what ones are sick...never to buy, or admire..
 
RTC GAR TSN;5052491; said:
Completely, 110% Agree!!! When i have more than one fish in a tank i worry about if they're fighting or if they're getting injured or sick. I can see where you're coming from and it actually doesn't make me seem so much like an idiot. :D

I'm glad i'm not alone. :)
 
I think this is one of those dividing lines between hobbyists. When I first started in the hobby at the age of 13, I was buying different types of fish with no regard to lake origins and what not. I never really over populated my tanks usually had about 4 fish per tank. This allowed me to create some bonds with particular fish.

Fast forward to now and I am totally immersed in species specific aquariums. I enjoy watching fish behavior more than I enjoy their looks. This has somewhat disconnected me from the "attachments" that I used to form with my fish. Fish keeping is a unique hobby in that it is sorta geeky and not many people get into it but we know it's really not. To each their own and we don't all have to have 20 fish species in one tank that are constantly bumping into each other like a New York City sidewalk lunch hour. I actually think fish that end up in your tanks are lucky to have you for their owner.

Chris
 
my thoughts...sure i like to see beautiful fish but i'm more into watching interaction in an aquatic world (similar to people watching) more then i'm into achieving physical perfection. i try to achieve a balance of both
 
ya know, i do agre with this. i was happiest when i had my oscar but i ended up trading him in because he was chasing my female green terror too much. ironically enough the fem GT stopped eating when I got rid of him and has been my only fishkeeping casualty outside of my 10 gallon when i first started (knock on wood). I currently have a lot of fish but i'm not really "attached" to any of them save a couple. This is tempting me to downgrade my stock more than I already planned to i'm not gonna lie. good food for thought and good thread.
 
It goes beyond achieving physical perfection. It's more a sense that i can't have a very very very very large tank and have a fish that is somehow sick or malnourished, like I sometimes see in giant private/public aquariums.

For example, I was eating at this one restaurant which had a giant saltwater tank. One of the tangs had hole in the head. it was driving me bananas to look at the wonderful tank with this one sick fish, even though it probably lived in the tank for a long while, and would go on living in the tank for a long while. How could you treat this fish in such a large tank!?

Also, I have never been more happy than now, having reduced my stock to "pet fish". In terms of numbers of things, i do like lots of plants though...
 
NCStateFisher;5052584; said:
ya know, i do agre with this. i was happiest when i had my oscar but i ended up trading him in because he was chasing my female green terror too much. ironically enough the fem GT stopped eating when I got rid of him and has been my only fishkeeping casualty outside of my 10 gallon when i first started (knock on wood). I currently have a lot of fish but i'm not really "attached" to any of them save a couple. This is tempting me to downgrade my stock more than I already planned to i'm not gonna lie. good food for thought and good thread.

Thanks, again I'm glad I'm not alone in this.
 
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