Nice build! I love how "simple" your build is compared to the over kill projects we see a lot of. To solve your sump flow balancing issue and still get 100% flow you will need to connect your sumps with a balance pipe or water bridge. Either drill the sumps or you can use another King of DIY method and just run a U shape piece of pvc between the tanks. I just had to figure out the same issue with one of my tanks. Here is the video where he shows the U method. Click to 1:00 when he starts the explanation.
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