Very interesting, thanks for posting this.No, it's quite obvious in many cases, has clearly recognizable symptoms, and has been well documented. There's also a fair bit of aquaculture science literature on it-- which I've researched in years past trying to figure it out-- as researchers have tried to determine causes, how to treat, prevent, etc.
I prefer not to argue and don't like to be this blunt, but you've simply got this wrong. Yes, it is rare in many species and you may have never seen it yourself, but that hardly makes it a myth. As I said, some species, or some cultivated derivations of species, are more susceptible to it than most. I'm simply not going to argue over which species see it more than most species in which it's typically rare. Of course, like anything it may be potentially be misdiagnosed by some, but there's not much mistaking it when you have real-life experience. Almost none at all, really. If anything I've seen some who aren't familiar with the condition not recognize what it is, even when it's fairly apparent to an experienced eye.
There's not much mistaking seeing a female fish that's quite obviously carrying eggs and on schedule in her spawning cycle subsequently fail to spawn, gradually swell up in the abdomen, then in the genital area, become listless, start breathing fast, have a genital area rupture, sometimes releasing a combination of puss and damaged/decaying eggs, then quickly go downhill from there, usually leading to the death of the fish. Go through this a few times, or see it for yourself, or have some obvious near misses where you were able to save the fish, and you learn to (or darn well better learn to) recognize the earlier stages when there are much better odds of saving the fish.
...Or little mistake in seeing a female fish in a susceptible species start down this road before you notice, get to a dangerous stage of it by the time you do, but being to save her because you know what you're doing.
A question: do the females thus afflicted ever manage to re-absorb the eggs on their own, without intervention on the part of the aquarist? Or must steps be taken to assist?
Female snakes would occasionally become egg-bound, and in many cases the inert "slugs" would be disposed of by the snake's body this way. This was a very easy condition to diagnose, as individual eggs could usually be felt with the fingers while gently handling and manipulating the animal. One hoped that they would disappear on their own...but if they did not, it was a problem.
Again, not particularly common, but enough so that if I were looking for a single snake to keep as a "pet" with no thoughts to eventual breeding, I and many others would often give preference to a male to avoid the whole issue.