oh trust me, i have told them straight out, well one post i have given my advice countless times, one has an oscar in a 29 gallon for a year and its only......... 6 inches? told her its stunted and she needs atleast a 75 for ONE oscar alone, she said she will work on it,but i mean COME ON, 6 inch oscar in a 29 gallon ( could even be a 20 gallon, she didnt give exact dimensions ) if you were to upgrade, you would have done it by now, but she says shes having money trouble, so i told her she needs to get rid of the oscar... .she kept fidgeting with me..... and then many OTHER members got on my ( excuse my french ) ass........... told me to quit, if they want advice they will ask, well told them, whether they want it or not, they will get it.... and told them, if you guys think I AM harsh on advice when you dont listen, try sites like MFK.......... members on MFK dont tolerate stuff like that, is what i told them lol..