Hobbies are great.. they are even greater sometimes when your significant other enjoys it as well.
But, does it ever get to the point where all of your conversations are about said hobby? Your night time in bed conversations is about new ideas for the hobby, or things you want to get for the hobby?
This has happened with my 3 and a half year relationship, and it's making me not like fish keeping sometimes because I just want to have our old relationship back.
I say "ok, no more fish for a while" and then he buys more fish a week later, or he buys another tank..
Don't get me wrong, I end up loving the ideas, and the fish.. but I just want him back.
Has this happened to any of you?
But, does it ever get to the point where all of your conversations are about said hobby? Your night time in bed conversations is about new ideas for the hobby, or things you want to get for the hobby?
This has happened with my 3 and a half year relationship, and it's making me not like fish keeping sometimes because I just want to have our old relationship back.
I say "ok, no more fish for a while" and then he buys more fish a week later, or he buys another tank..
Don't get me wrong, I end up loving the ideas, and the fish.. but I just want him back.
Has this happened to any of you?