I have this horrible pic of my male (he won't come out of hiding for some reason, really weird for him as he's been uber social). And based on what it says here (assuming they're correct), this guy really is a male. Also, he's the one doing all the "cupping" with his anal fin, which has been described on other sites as being male behavior.is300zx;1670136; said:Your female looks like a male to me. Do you have other pics?
Here's a couple of different looks at my female...and btw, I have now witnessed her actually depositing eggs...unless males do this too, I'm pretty sure, she's a female.