Hey guys, I've made the change. Yesterday I jumped in and switched my tank from gravel to pool filter sand. It was 15 dollars for 50 lbs here and it's well worth it. I did a lot of looking and from everything I've read it's the way to go. It's cheap, looks great and was very easy to clean. My ph right out of the tap is 8.2 here so I'm not worried about buffering. The grain size looks perfect and it settles very fast. I might even switch my American cichlid tank over lol. I've made a couple of videos to show. I figure they are more fun than pics.
http://youtu.be/LNIf8_MnQmA
And after
http://youtu.be/Nzj5XIQaIwc
http://youtu.be/LNIf8_MnQmA
And after
http://youtu.be/Nzj5XIQaIwc