So this is about the 6 or 7 spawn from my red jewels. I have never really seen the "male" fertilize the eggs but they both guard them. They have also ate all the eggs everytime. I have seen the female eat a few this time but there is still a good tons left. Any ideas why they would do this? And is there anyway to tell if my other is indeed a male, I would assume the female wouldn't let it near the eggs if it was another female right?