I did this dance a couple months ago. You'll hear from both sides as I did. Here is how you can decide: if you have the cash, choose from the super natural line from caribsea which is designed to be ray and soft belly safe and it is great (several varieties too). I selected crystal river. I love it, rays love it, absolutely no irritation, they sift through it, and if it gets kicked up, it just sinks back down. A plus, it doesn't stick to them. Silica is said to be ok by some, others have shared experiences where they will never use it with rays again. If your low on cash, you could try scilica, but caribsea is a sure thing. Caribsea was $19.99 for 20 lbs.
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