can you guys help sex my festae it is now 4"+... i believe its a male.... but i have no expierence sexing festae and from what i read he seems to be male but i would like to hear from the experts... ohh and do any of you guys know how to get this guy to come out more hes stays in his cave all day i was lucky to get the pics.. it doesnt even eat in front of me i have to leave the room so he can eat... he has no tankmates, i frequently stand in front of the tank but he just hides...