Done a bunch more reading (Thanks mosthated, that's a good read). I started cutting acrylic tonight - maybe if I don't spend too much time working on the car this weekend I'll actually finish the acrylic part of this. I also ordered a 100gph pump that will serve as my recirc and feed pump (hopefully my plumbing works out OK here.)
I also did some calling around today for sulfur pellets. Pothead hydroponics shop sells it for $10/lb (!!!). I found a garden supply wholesaler that sells the same product in 55lb sacks for $23/sack. (1/20 the price of the burnout shop).
using the 1% of tank volume thing mentioned in some other threads, I'm making my sulfur chamber capacity around 3 gallons, and I'll fill it only partway in case I want to add more.
two questions I still have at this point are:
1) what if I put too much sulfur in?? is this like nitrifying bacteria, and only as much will grow as can be fed with the available nitrates, or will my reactor overpopulate and cause some toxic effects?
2) Where do the sulfates go? Do they precipitate out in my CaCO3 reactor, or will my tank be full of sulfate salts?
I've read a few horror stories of people's fish dying and stuff when they first started their reactors up... maybe I'll set up a 50gal outside with a few hundred feeders in it to test this before I hook it up to my main tank.