My personal pick would be Xiphophorous Hellerii.
I have found Xiphophorous to do well with many Central American cichlids as the cichlids don’t view them as a threat. They would also be biotope correct
I agree
But I am one of those anally fixated "geographically correct" sticklers, that want my tanks to be natural..
While technically speaking barbs or rainbow fish work as dither fish, being from Asia and Australia respectively, they do not meet true biotope needs
Swordtails (Gambusia and mollies) would share habitat in nature with T. meeki as would Astyanax (and some other) tetras.
Xiphorus mayae above, Roeboides tetras below, both of which I have used as biotopically correct dithers for new world cichlids.
The bugaboo I see here, is that a 75 gal tank is really not a large enough space to induce true schooling or shoaling behavior.
And will be pretty cramped for a shoal of 5 adult meeki alone (standard L 6" (so not including the tail fin). A friend in Chicago has a large male that hit almost a foot in length (T length)
For that size meeki shoal, and a school of dither fish (that act naturally) a 6 ft tank will probably be minimal.
Another of my anal quirks, I also "don't want" a more colorful type dither fish that upstages the tank with flashy colors that detract from the diva main focus fish (the cichlids)
The photo below was taken in southern Mexico where meeki are found.
They are sail fin mollies and Astyanax tetras.
Below mollies (the blue) and another common live bearer in their habitat gambusia