Reminds me of my Pop too, also makes me feel good about all the time I spend with my son on trips to hockey games and practice. Great stuff. I am one of those people who only keeps fish for therapeutic reasons as well. It's the only place in the world where my wife and kids can't leave all of their crap all over. It's as clean as I leave it, and functions like a zen garden for me. There is order under the water grasshopper, chaos outside.