i need help you guys i have no idea what sex my jack Dempsey is its 3.5 inches long and some days it has the coloration of a male and other days it will have the coloration of a female btw its tank mates are a 4.5 maybe 5 inch bluegill and an almost 4.5 inch Golden gourami the gourami is a female the bluegill a male View attachment 1128957