http://www.eattheweeds.com/gar-treasured-trash-fish/
https://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20090619131431AAngOHk
Second link claims they are not toxic to other fish. Probably not worth risking it with rays without a better source though.
Edit:
The better source is actually bottled in the second link--direct quote:
"Q: Are gar eggs truly poisonous or is this an old fishers' tale that has been repeated so often that it has the illusion of truth?
A: I spoke with Ken Ostrand, lead author of the second paper cited below. He confirmed what I suspected, that the toxin has yet to be identified. He said it is a protein of some kind, and speculated it may even be an algicide or fungicide. He also said it may just be an old wives' tale, which many people have suggested. Adding to the mix is the fact that of
the few studies that have focused on the subject (most of which offer just anecdotal reports), none describe the eggs as being toxic to other fishes. From an evolutionary perspective, this is significant, since fishes would be the most likely predators on gar eggs (not chickens, as some studies have used, and certainly not humans). In other words, why
would egg toxicity evolve if it offered no protection against the most likely predators? So it may just be chance that the eggs cause sickness in birds and mammals. Or, as Ostrand suggested, converting the eggs to pellet form to feed to chickens, or even force-feeding raw eggs to mice, might involve changes in the biochemistry of the eggs which could cause an unnatural response."
Burns, T.A., D.T. Stalling, and W. Goodger. 1981. Gar ichthyootoxin - its effect on crayfish, with notes on bluegill sunfish. The Southwestern
Naturalist 25(4):513-515.
Ostrand, K.G., M. Thies, D.D. Hall, and M. Carpenter. 1996. Gar
ichthyootoxin: its effects on natural predators and the toxin's
evolutionary function. Southwestern Nat., 41:375-377.