One of these threads, huh?? I joined MFK to learn and take in knowledge while also showing off my fish. Most would agree that they have joined for the same reasons, no?? Any advice I recieve is always taken under consideration and in your case it should be as well. We have a lot of very experienced fish keepers on here and I fully encourage you to take their advice. No one here would ever try to tell another MFKer to take their fish back to the store unless it was the absolute right thing to do, which in your case it is. All of us have been in your shoes at one point or another, however the ones who stay in this hobby and have fun in this hobby listen to other fish keepers and crawl before they run... patience is key here bro. You can also choose to do it your way, but as for asking for help down the road... well, lets just say people will be less inclined to lend a hand if you are unwilling to listen, they will feel as if it is a waste of time. They are your fish and this is your choice. Good luck.