Some one in my house is getting pretty annoying...Ughhh

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Jack Dempsey
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Sorry guys, but I am mad as heck right now! Super tired of this bs.

Almost a year ago my aunty and my cousin(aunt's daughter) moved in because she got divorced. She was divorced for a year before she moved in. She moved in because she couldnt afford her apartment anymore because she is living off workers comp.

Lately her ex husband has been bombing our house phone and cell phone. Every minute he would call the home phone asking to talk to my little cousin. He sometimes calls around 11pm-12am. The phone is busy through out the day because of this. Every time the phone rings, we all know who it is so we let her pick up the phone because we are all sick and tired of him calling everyday. Everyday there is always an argument on the phone between my aunt and her ex. She would curse and yell at him like "why the *F are you calling for you dumb *A". We turn our answering machine off now because all the messages are from his miss calls that we dont answer.

Another thing that I hate is the way my aunt acts. She threatens my little cousin that she will discontinue her from cheer because she can not afford it anymore. When my little cousin agrees with my aunt, my aunt then says "why are you going to quit cheer? your good at it". She just contradicts herself! It drives me nuts when she does this because I know my cousin loves cheer and she is really good at it. She is only 8 years old and is on the high school level cheer team.

This just happen the other day. She was looking stressed out and my dad approached her and asked her what was wrong. She told my dad that her car was going to get repo because she couldnt pay for the car. She told my dad that she needed $2000 to pay off the car bills and other bills. My dad agreed to give her the money and she agreed to pay my dad back. Two years ago my parents loaned her $6000 and havent paid them back yet. Sometimes I wonder what she does with all her money because she helps with the bill very little, doesnt buy things like tooth paste, toilet paper, soap, and etc.

Even though this stuff is getting pretty annoying I still love my aunt and cousin to death. I just cant handle this anymore to the point that its either I move out or them. I feel that our lives are endangered sometimes because he can be very violent and unpredictable.
 
Get rid of the squatters, problems solved. From the way you describe it, squatters seems like an appropriate title.
 
Sorry guys, but I am mad as heck right now! Super tired of this bs.

Almost a year ago my aunty and my cousin(aunt's daughter) moved in because she got divorced. She was divorced for a year before she moved in. She moved in because she couldnt afford her apartment anymore because she is living off workers comp.

Lately her ex husband has been bombing our house phone and cell phone. Every minute he would call the home phone asking to talk to my little cousin. He sometimes calls around 11pm-12am. The phone is busy through out the day because of this. Every time the phone rings, we all know who it is so we let her pick up the phone because we are all sick and tired of him calling everyday. Everyday there is always an argument on the phone between my aunt and her ex. She would curse and yell at him like "why the *F are you calling for you dumb *A". We turn our answering machine off now because all the messages are from his miss calls that we dont answer.

Another thing that I hate is the way my aunt acts. She threatens my little cousin that she will discontinue her from cheer because she can not afford it anymore. When my little cousin agrees with my aunt, my aunt then says "why are you going to quit cheer? your good at it". She just contradicts herself! It drives me nuts when she does this because I know my cousin loves cheer and she is really good at it. She is only 8 years old and is on the high school level cheer team.

This just happen the other day. She was looking stressed out and my dad approached her and asked her what was wrong. She told my dad that her car was going to get repo because she couldnt pay for the car. She told my dad that she needed $2000 to pay off the car bills and other bills. My dad agreed to give her the money and she agreed to pay my dad back. Two years ago my parents loaned her $6000 and havent paid them back yet. Sometimes I wonder what she does with all her money because she helps with the bill very little, doesnt buy things like tooth paste, toilet paper, soap, and etc.

Even though this stuff is getting pretty annoying I still love my aunt and cousin to death. I just cant handle this anymore to the point that its either I move out or them. I feel that our lives are endangered sometimes because he can be very violent and unpredictable.

Personally knowing people like this all you can do is kick them the flip out stop supporting them and make them take care of themselves. Sounds like your cousin should stay with her dad because her mom isn't getting anything done. Free living and she still can't balance her bills??? What bills can she have, a phone and car payment??? Dude seriously the more you help someone like that out the more they take until there is nothing left then they move onto the next person. Loaning her money to keep something she doesn't deserve/can't afford when she is already in debt doesn't teach her the value of anything. If you didn't have a cousin in the mix it would be much easier to resolve this who debacle.
 
yikes studd, good luck man. i know how our peeps can be

dont' know what to tell you except, keep your head up and, you got a hot girlfriend, lol
 
Your aunt is probably giving money to her ex.? You need to talk to your dad. tell him how you feel. Your dad needs to set some ground rules. he needs to be stern. The calls need to stop. He needs to tell her if she is to continue living there, she can no longer receive calls from her ex at home. you guys can change the number.

If you feel endangered, then you moving out is not the solution as your family is still there and might be in danger as well. You need to sit down with your family and get all of this out in the open.... and come up with an action plan. As much as you love your aunt, think about your other family members.....innocent by-standards.

If your dad continues to give money to your aunt, she will never learn and never change.

Good luck.
 
Personally knowing people like this all you can do is kick them the flip out stop supporting them and make them take care of themselves. Sounds like your cousin should stay with her dad because her mom isn't getting anything done. Free living and she still can't balance her bills??? What bills can she have, a phone and car payment??? Dude seriously the more you help someone like that out the more they take until there is nothing left then they move onto the next person. Loaning her money to keep something she doesn't deserve/can't afford when she is already in debt doesn't teach her the value of anything. If you didn't have a cousin in the mix it would be much easier to resolve this who debacle.

My cousin living with her dad is worse than living with her mom. He can never hold a steady job. He just lost his job last week because he was never on time. When we go on family trips with my cousin and aunt, he doesnt even give my cousin a penny. All expenses are covered by my parents. He doesnt give her money period. We ask her what she does with her money and she says she has a lot of bills to pay, but what bills does she have? Phone, car, and car insurance thats all I could think of.

yikes studd, good luck man. i know how our peeps can be

dont' know what to tell you except, keep your head up and, you got a hot girlfriend, lol

Thanks bro haha :grinno:
 
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