There's a problem with the 'didn't know' defense. Everyone acknowledges that they have read and understand the site TOS when they register.
***BTW, I'm surprised no one has realized that the 23 points previously stated was an arbitrary number simply thrown out there. Usually, it takes the proverbial 3-strikes to get a vacation from the site. HOWEVER, ...in cases of extreme intent and/or repeat behavior after recent warnings/infractions, it may be decided that a member requires a timeout before the 3 strike has occurred.
And, as always, posting porn or spamming the site gets the offender an express pass off the site immediately and permanently.