i have a big 6" male and a 2.5" female they spawned like two weeks ago but my pictus catfish eat the eggs . so i moved them to a 20 high till i get my other tanks set up. now i got her ready for round two but i noticed shes acting scared of the male now. when ever he tempts to get her attention she runs and hides in a corner or her caves. i think they spawned the first time by luck since the catfish acted as dithers. and with out them in there she lacks the confidence she once had with the cat fish in there. she was trying the other night but he wouldnt let her lay the eggs he kept charging her while she was trying to lay the eggs on the flat rocks. while she hid he would eat the eggs instead of fertilizing them . she couldnt hold em any more they just started coming out of her and he was behind her eats the eggs as they fell. what should i do to help them out ? i was thinking of adding a dither or two.