You would probably like watching the fish raise the babies and lay eggs. You can tell if a convict cichlid is a male or female. The females have a redish belly and the males have a less red or no redish on the belley and males have a little blue on there fins.Would i need to get a male and female? or would two of the same sex get along? Sorry i dont know much about these guys il go look into them more tho. Thank you guys!