Depressed, should I give away my fish?

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I just have the feeling that ill never find anyone as amazing as my ex was, but now she wants nothing to do with me.

I don't find other girls really attractive right now :/


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Stay home. Don't eat. Don't shower, stink. Give your fish away. That's your choice. Or get on with your life. The choice is yours. That's life. It's all about choices and what you make of it.
 
Trust us older cats when we say we've all said that many times before, and honestly at 19 you've only experienced the tip of the ice-berg in relationships... Give it time and it will heal, and before you know it you'll have an even better girl by your side...


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In India there is a saying about girls and it is as follows , For youngsters girls are like bus when one goes another comes ...:D:D

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same thing happened to me lol but then i decided to go to teh gym get jacked and the ladies kept comming, only way to get over it is to hook up or start talking to another broad, if you have the energy to dissmember your tank you have the energy to take care of it
 
Dear Mr. Aiden,


The girls that we think are really special tend to be a dime a dozen. I get whats goin on man, my ex and I did a lot of **** together, and reminders suck. But don't shut down because of a girl...silly waste. Your 19, not 45, you literally have hundreds of other ways of occupying your time at your disposal, along with billions (yes that many) of women left available on the planet. I'm sure you thinking to yourself that "She's the one, etc etc. But you know what? If you guys broke up and she left a guy like you that's going to go into a depression for this girl, then she didn't make YOU her number 1. So you know what you say to that? "**** DAT!" And don't go telling yourself you'll never find somebody else because I got three things to say to you about that 1. The sheer math for that to even make sense is almost impossible, 2. You've already had a girlfriend, so a replication of the process is not impossible, 3. If you act like your never gona find another and what you want is what you HAD, then it's going to greatly slow down your healing process.
You don't me, and I don't know you, but I know what **** like that is like. And you also need to realize your 19 years old in 2012, people don't get married that young and girls at this age (just like most guys) get easily scared once that thought crosses their mind because they know they're still young and want to see whats really out there. You should too

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Exactly this! And this from an old geezer, who has been ghere, done that.

Do not annull your persona because of a broken heart. You must be better than that.

How i wish i was 18 and with still alot of occasions to feel what you feel. Go on, feel it. It is part of grwoing up.

And then get over it.

Tend your fish. They are yours.
 
Don't get rid of your fish because of a girl. If your this depressed about the break up, find a therapist. Seriously. Life goes on. But if you can't take care of your fish and yourself, then find someone to help you learn some coping skills to deal with the bumps in the road of life.
 
Exactly this! And this from an old geezer, who has been ghere, done that.

Do not annull your persona because of a broken heart. You must be better than that.

How i wish i was 18 and with still alot of occasions to feel what you feel. Go on, feel it. It is part of grwoing up.

And then get over it.

Tend your fish. They are yours.

Lmao old geezer, I'm 23
 
A lot of good advice here. My $0.02 is to try to take care of your fish but if it's too hard then sell them off, but keep the setups. Take your time to mourn but know that you will get over it. Get healthy-work out, eat better, go running, not only will you look better but it will make you feel better about yourself too which will help with the depression. Then, if you sold off your fish then start up your tanks again, but keep something different than before that way you still have a hobby to keep you busy but won't have a daily reminder of who you were with everytime you look into your tank. You're only 19 so you will find someone else who will make you much happier than you can ever imagine and when you look back at this you'll wonder why you were even so upset.
 
You have not eaten/showered, yet login MFK.com. That shows you shouldn't give your fish away!
 
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