Bros Before "H's" Code: One of My Stories From the Glory Days

[Miguel]

and be a Man, by not describing that girl, with who you yourself felt something, as a Party Girl.

There are no Party girls. There are prostitutes and then there are healthy young woman, unnatached, who just want, as you, to have an uncomplictaed moment. This does not make the disposable, party, objects.

Respect the memory of her, stronger in you that you imagine ( and now i opened a whole new, facebookian avenue to the story.... )

You sound like a 100 year old fart saying that.

 

[SumoNinja]

lol, you got some good points Miguel.

but you're wrong about me feeling sorry for myself and I do not need to feel the center of something. not sure why you'd say that at all really. maybe me referring to some girls as party girls offended you and you felt the need to be a white knight and take a jab at me.

which is fine, that's your opinion and your prerogative. but you choose to make that a bad connotation, not me. I referred to her as a party girl. that was it, just someone to party with. I never made it a bad thing to be a party girl. I didn't degrade the girl or anything. if you don't like that term that's your problem. I never referred to her as a disposable party object neither. another conclusion you jumped to

otherwise you're probably right. the other guys did say it and not jay but then again, they said it because they heard it from jay themselves. but i'm thinking when jay said it, it was said way back then already.

I've decided i'm not gonna say anything about it. simply because it's so long ago and i'd feel silly bringing it up. it just bothered me when they told me jay never got over it. i'm just the type of guy that if one of my family is upset with me, i'd rather go and fix the issue.



so now, what i'd like to know is:

1. what would you guys have done that night in my position? how would you have reacted before and after the kiss?

2. what would you do in jay's position that night?

 

[Miguel]

Sumo, we all go through stages where we, even if uncomsciously, feel sorry for ourselves and feel the need to assume a certain "protagonism ( that is what i meant with being the center ).

And reopening old situations is a symptom of that. There was absolutely no negative criticosm implied ( just a whole lot of years on top of you...

As to Party girls, you gave them that connotation by describing that some are for something, some or the other, and both don't mix. More or less those were your words.

And i know that way of thinking. Was raised to it, in southern europe, the center core for that kind of rationale.

And no, i don't like ot because life taught me that all girls, all healthy girls, may, at a cerain age, be comsieder party girls, which, as a Man,a dn as a Father, i find demeaning to them.

Said party girl ( which clearly was more than that ) is someone's wife and mother, probably.


Our wives , daughters, etc, all have had their youth, their first experiences, not forcibly with the persons they are now and it is a bit cheap, imho, to define woman along that line.

But you took it too personal. I ended up saying to you what i would have said to anyone of my four boys.

My bad, eventaully.

 

[mr fishy]

lol, you got some good points Miguel.

but you're wrong about me feeling sorry for myself and I do not need to feel the center of something. not sure why you'd say that at all really. maybe me referring to some girls as party girls offended you and you felt the need to be a white knight and take a jab at me.

which is fine, that's your opinion and your prerogative. but you choose to make that a bad connotation, not me. I referred to her as a party girl. that was it, just someone to party with. I never made it a bad thing to be a party girl. I didn't degrade the girl or anything. if you don't like that term that's your problem. I never referred to her as a disposable party object neither. another conclusion you jumped to

otherwise you're probably right. the other guys did say it and not jay but then again, they said it because they heard it from jay themselves. but i'm thinking when jay said it, it was said way back then already.

I've decided i'm not gonna say anything about it. simply because it's so long ago and i'd feel silly bringing it up. it just bothered me when they told me jay never got over it. i'm just the type of guy that if one of my family is upset with me, i'd rather go and fix the issue.



so now, what i'd like to know is:

1. what would you guys have done that night in my position? how would you have reacted before and after the kiss?

2. what would you do in jay's position that night?

1.i wouldn't have kissed her
2.prolly punch you hard



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[bomber]

1. what would you guys have done that night in my position? how would you have reacted before and after the kiss?

2. what would you do in jay's position that night?

1) In that position, I would not have scammed with that girl knowing that my cousin was trying to hook up with her. Jays "game" was obviously weak and you should have help him by making him look good by telling her he's handsome; rich; and has a rapist wit-Lloyd from dumb and dumber. This story reminds me of Dumb and Dumber they way Harry went on that date with Lloyd's chick even though Lloyd hooked up with Rita Feltcher in the past.
2) If I was jay that night, I would have Put some Exlax in your food Sumo. I mean Turbo Lax..

As for your title.... You chose the H* before your bro. We call that CVL in my culture.

 

[SumoNinja]

Sumo, we all go through stages where we, even if uncomsciously, feel sorry for ourselves and feel the need to assume a certain "protagonism ( that is what i meant with being the center ).

And reopening old situations is a symptom of that. There was absolutely no negative criticosm implied ( just a whole lot of years on top of you...

As to Party girls, you gave them that connotation by describing that some are for something, some or the other, and both don't mix. More or less those were your words.

And i know that way of thinking. Was raised to it, in southern europe, the center core for that kind of rationale.

And no, i don't like ot because life taught me that all girls, all healthy girls, may, at a cerain age, be comsieder party girls, which, as a Man,a dn as a Father, i find demeaning to them.

Said party girl ( which clearly was more than that ) is someone's wife and mother, probably.


Our wives , daughters, etc, all have had their youth, their first experiences, not forcibly with the persons they are now and it is a bit cheap, imho, to define woman along that line.

But you took it too personal. I ended up saying to you what i would have said to anyone of my four boys.

My bad, eventaully.

if I took it too personal i'd react a different way. I respect what you said and your opinion. you're right, in general. but again, I don't find the term party girl to be offensive. i'm just calling a spade a spade. heck, I was a "party boy." not anymore, but at one point I was. so if I was just that, I shouldn't be offended when referred to as such. if that girl isn't one anymore, then that's fine. but at that point in time she definitely was. and i'm not gonna sugar coat it when referring back to that moment in time

and I completely back up what I said. there are party girls, those who you have a good time with and would not get into a relationship with. and there are the girls who you do get into relationships with. if you wanna use a different term to describe them, that's fine. it don't take away the fact that it is what it is.

no need to apologize Miguel, I welcome all responses and am open to any discussions when I make a thread

 

[SumoNinja]

1.i wouldn't have kissed her
2.prolly punch you hard



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1) In that position, I would not have scammed with that girl knowing that my cousin was trying to hook up with her. Jays "game" was obviously weak and you should have help him by making him look good by telling her he's handsome; rich; and has a rapist wit-Lloyd from dumb and dumber. This story reminds me of Dumb and Dumber they way Harry went on that date with Lloyd's chick even though Lloyd hooked up with Rita Feltcher in the past.
2) If I was jay that night, I would have Put some Exlax in your food Sumo. I mean Turbo Lax..

As for your title.... You chose the H* before your bro. We call that CVL in my culture.

I can see what you guys are saying. generally i'd say the same.

but if I were in jay's situation I wouldn't be upset. that's just me though.

the thing is, jay has done some shady stuff himself involving girls that I never took offense to. which is why I did what I did. I felt everything was cool because we all had an understanding. but I guess to some people when you're the one stealing the girls it's easy to do but not as easy to take when the tables are turned

that's what sets me and him apart I guess