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SumoNinja said:
I'd be out if my wife cheated. well, she'd be out of the house, i'd be out of the relationship.

but i'm only speaking from never being in that position. I've been cheated on while dating and I was out. but in a marriage I would think i'd do the same.

but yea, like eddie said, it's more complicated in a marriage and kids involved. but in the end i'd be out. total respect and support for those that can and want to work it out though. but I can only speak for myself, i'd be out. I would never be able to look at them the same
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Yup same here once a cheater always a cheater..

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Only you can decide really what to do. You have all the details, know if there are extenuating circumstances and how you feel. People saying just quit it without knowing everything don't know what they're talking about. They've either never been in a long term relation or not a real one. Simple phrases like once a cheater, etc have no place or meaning here. Counseling is a good option, but don't be afraid to get a second one if you don't like the answers you're getting. Good luck.

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dragonfish said:
Only you can decide really what to do. You have all the details, know if there are extenuating circumstances and how you feel. People saying just quit it without knowing everything don't know what they're talking about. They've either never been in a long term relation or not a real one. Simple phrases like once a cheater, etc have no place or meaning here. Counseling is a good option, but don't be afraid to get a second one if you don't like the answers you're getting. Good luck.

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I see what you're saying but what you said is no worse/no better than what anyone else said. it's all subjective and depends on how each individual feels about it. there's no right answers but the answers that are right for you.

but he put it out there, I think it's good for him to see it from all angles
 
That's kind of how I feel, and I'm no mr fishy. This was a big hard decision, not my gf won't call me and we've been dating 3 days... Anywho I did ask her to stay and we'd go from there. Ever day/night is a struggle. Wasn't looking for the woe is me kinda answers, I'm really curious who has gone thru this and how they dealt with it. Or even some friendly advice of how you'd feel and what you'd do given some of the circumstances I've laid out (yes every situation is different but doesn't hurt to ask).


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