The cause of your lost arros is your lack of knowledge on the nitrogen cycle (We've all been there, so don't take that wrong). If you don't have a nitrite/nitrate test, you shouldn't be adding fish. If you add a 3" arro to a tank that was cycled for three days with one feeder fish, it will certainly be poisioned with ammo and nitrites, and will almost certainly die.
Bio bacteria needs nutriment just like every other living thing, and it will live and multiply, or not live and multiply, according to the amount of it's food source. The nutriment starts with ammonia (fish poop). If you're doing a fish-in cycle in a tank to house a 3" arro, you need to do it with a bioload (an amount of poop) that is close to that of the arro, so you would need about another 2-3" gold fish or two (not a feeder, because then you run the risk of parasites.) You'll see your ammo spike, then your nitrite spike, then your nitrate will spike. When the ammo and nitrite go back to absolute zero, do a 50% water change, check that your nitrates are safe, and swap out the goldfish for your arro.
A MUCH better solution for you would be doing a fishless cycle. Doing this will help you understand the nitrogen cycle and will save you a LOT of money and fish in the long run. Either way, you should read these threads, and threads like them, before you buy anymore fish.
http://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/forums/showthread.php?207575-Fishless-Cycling
http://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/forums/showthread.php?28654-Fishless-Cycling
And then bounce around reading about keywords: nitrifying bacteria, Nitrosomanas, Nitrobacter, and nitrogen cycle.
Good luck!