Sorry but no just because a fish is a female it has no effect at any time on the strength of a individual fishes genes. So no female genes are not most times stronger. Also age,stress and husbandry plays no part in the genetic make up of a fish or what it passes on to it's progeny.
@floydlevi, yes sex can affect what is passed on to an animals progeny but it is due to what is carried on the different chromosomes. For instance being color blind is a trait that is carried on the X chromosome not on the Y. So a male only needs his one X chromosome to carry the trait for it to be expressed since he only carries one X and one Y chromosome, while a female would need both X chromosomes to carry the trait for it to be expressed. As such men are more likely to be born color blind than women and women are capable of carrying the gene without expressing it while males can't. The same is true of other genes and can be applied to fish, but it would require mapping of a mated pairs genetics either through a lab or through multiple breeding's of the same fish to get a decent idea of what traits are carried on what chromosomes. There's also a plethora of other factors such as dominance and co-dominance but explaining it further may just muddy the waters of what I already explained here for you. Presently if anyone is doing any non lab related mapping in the hobby it's probably professional Flowerhorn breeders who are constantly trying to track expressed traits in their FH's to get what they consider a more attractive fish. They how ever are tight lipped as developing more attractive fish is the basis of their business which is why to this day we're unsure of what a Blood Parrot is the progeny of. Many feel they have an idea of what went into creating BP's but I've yet to see any produced from scratch by a common hobbyist. Hope that helps some, sorry I couldn't tell you more detailed info. that may help with your hybrid breeding. I can only wish you luck and tell you if you want to be successful keep notes on everything and be thorough in your breeding's to make sure you get a good idea of what any pair of fish has the capability to produce.