Hello; A rough estimate for a large tank might be 10 to 12+ pounds per gallon. This can vary with the type of stand and the stuff you put in the tank.
A 375 gallon tank can be 3,750 to 4,500 pounds or perhaps even more.
From reading your posts it is my guess you have little construction experience. You also indicate the need to sit the tank parallel on the floor joists. From the photos the joists are the engineered type. My guess being the floor will need to be reinforced and that it will be a hard job due to the tight crawl space.
Here is the web address of an article that talks about the issue. I
strongly suggest you read this. I also strongly suggest you get a professional to look at the house structure. That "good" price on a tank will not matter when the floor begins to sag if the tank and other stuff turns out to be too heavy.
http://badmanstropicalfish.com/articles/article28.html
My take is that the question can only be answered by someone with knowledge of structure actually having a look to see what you have and what condition it is in. There have been posts (a link follows) describing damage from tanks from time to time, so it does happen.
In case some missed this thread a while back here is a link to it. A look at the pictures should give pause, they did for me.
http://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/f...-out-there-Question-about-reinforcing-a-floor
Good luck