Hello; Prepare for a potential onslaught. There likely will be accusations of poor water quality because of rare water change (WC). They will not know the water conditions because you do not list testing results. By the same token you will not be able to rebut because you also do not know the water parameters. Could become entertaining.
I do not know the water conditions either but can make a couple of educated guesses. You have low stocking density which is a positive for slowing buildup of the most commonly tested chemicals. Water cycle territory which I will leave to someone else. The end of that cycle is a relatively mild toxin called nitrate. Nitrate builds up in a closed system such as an aquarium.
Lots of live plants, especially the emergent sort can remove some of the nitrates is my understanding. A thing seems to be some of the plant parts either need to be harvested or some plant parts need to grow out of the water (emergent) At the very least all or most dead and/decaying leaves need to be removed and not allowed to rot in the water. The last few decades I have gone to very light stocking of fish but have lots of plants. I pull the live (healthy) plants from time to time and take them to a fish shop in Kingsport TN. I still do WC more often than you report.
Next WAG has to do with evaporation. In three months, you likely have to top off the tank with water because some evaporates. All tap water, well water and such sources will have some dissolved minerals in the water. As tank water evaporates the minerals remain. A WC every three months likely means you have a large buildup of minerals & salts over a year. Rule of thumb by me is to WC at least twice as much new water as has evaporated. If the thank water goes down two inches, then drain out at least four inches and replace.
But in the end, you get to run your tank any way you please. Good ,bad or in between. Other than low density stoking & live plants I cannot defend a three-month WC schedule.
You do not mention a low-level feeding schedule but that might help some. That means sparce feedings along with one or two days a week of fasting. That way not much excess food left to rot in the water.
Kind of wish you had kept on keeping on and not posted. Gives those who are zealots ammunition for finding ways to enforce their favored way of doing things inside our homes.
I will steal a line from
duanes
. Compare the nitrate/mineral buildup of most all aquariums to the build up of natural/wild water habitats. The wild waters most often do not have measurable nitrates. Some wild water can have minerals, but the fish have adapted to such.
