My congrats to your GF for sticking it out. Very few women made it in structural engineering in the 45 years I was an engineer.
She won't answer because there is no true blanket answer. It requires complete situational analysis. Either way can work fine, depending . . .
hem out with air pressure, before we produced a window-wall or curtain-wall etc. This is because calculations and experience alone cannot predict everything.
Haha, thats why she just looks at me , rolls her eyes and looks at me like I am an idiot !!
I guess from her perspective I am ... Couple that with the fact she thinks I am insane ( And Annoyed ) with my love of building bigger and bigger tanks